Yesterday, I didn’t edit the novel when my FMIL entertained the Pumpkin. Short term, it would’ve been better for my writing if I did. For long term benefit though, I knew I needed to do something else.
Babies and writing have plenty in common. For one thing, you’re playing the long game. And it can be hard. Really hard. To keep your strength up and stay focused, you need to take care of yourself. Which also isn’t easy, especially if you don’t have the support discussed in last week’s post. (Thank you for all the comments and feedback!)
Instead of editing, I went for a solo walk, visited some charity shops and had a sit down hot chocolate in a cafe. This would’ve been impossible to do during a 30 minute baby nap and felt like a luxury. I can get some of that editing done during a nap or two instead (I just need to make it a priority).
I’m not a huge fan of the word “self-care”, it’s become so diluted. But we do need to take care, even if it can sometimes make you feel weak or “less than”. Because when you do, it helps you stay engaged both with your little one and the things you are passionate about.
What do you like to do when/if you have a moment to yourself?
Thank you for reading!
Xx
Madicken Malm 